Frame Your Thanks
Nov 2, 2012 | (I Did This Myself), Holidays
Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday. I love the food (everytime I go to Luby’s I eat turkey and dressing). I love the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day parade. I love it when it’s cold outside, but this year if it’s nice we might sit on...
Love on The Rocks
Aug 22, 2012 | (I Did This Myself)
Returned Sunday from a restful time in Ruidoso where the weather was cool and the livin’ was easy. Woke up Monday morning for my first day back at work…to a stomach bug. Not so good times the last few days, but I was due for a good bug as I...
Hospitality is in my DNA. I founded Home with a Twist, a daughter’s twist on her mother’s traditions, in memory of my mother to celebrate her life and the gifts she shared with me. Mother loved to celebrate life’s occasions – big and small.She taught me how to prepare fabulous food, entertain guests with style and design a traditional home with a pop of color and a splash of animal print. Share my fondness of blending Mother’s mid-century style with a modern spin.
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Somewhere in time the "dinner party" concept defined hospitality. But the sit-down dinner is the black diamond of entertaining.
It takes menu timing, grocery runs, hot pots, and hours on your feet. If you tell yourself that is the only way to gather, of course you talk yourself out of it.
Start with the low-stress ladder instead:
Morning coffee on the porch with a bakery treat (45 minutes, no cooking)
Wine and a simple cheese board (self-serve, zero stove work)
Dessert and decaf at 8:00 PM after people have eaten elsewhere
One pot of soup and a loaf of warm bread
The full dinner party
Hospitality was never about how long you stood over the stove. It is about how warmly you make someone feel at your table.
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Handing guests a drink the minute they walk through the front door sets the tone right away. It frees you from playing bartender all evening, and serving a mocktail makes sure every guest feels welcomed from their first step inside.
And this Sparkling Cider & Maple Mocktail is so good anytime YOU want a party for yourself.😊
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I know the deep love that goes into standing over a hot stove all afternoon. Pouring so much effort into every detail, making sure everything is warm and ready. Cooking for people is pure hospitality.
But, when that doorbell rings, the cooking part is done.
Your guests came to be with you. They want to hear your laugh, sit across from your face, and feel welcomed the second they walk through your front door. An empty living room while you stay trapped at the burners cheats both of you out of the gathering.
Give yourself permission to turn the heat to low fifteen minutes before they arrive. Take off your apron. Wash your hands. Pour yourself something cool and meet them at the door unhurried.
The meal is a wonderful gift, but your presence is the whole reason you opened your home.
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Every excuse keeping you from hosting is sitting right here in my living room.
Cat-scratched sofa arm, torn carpet fibers, and a rug spot.
We convince ourselves our homes must look like pristine showrooms before we can open the door.
Nobody who loves you is auditing your upholstery. They came for the conversation and a warm welcome.
If you wait for perfection, another season slips by with an empty living room.
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